..beautiful diamond engagement ring

Yes for those who thought my Facebook engagement is a hoax, it is not. It is for real and believe it. If you don’t, I will blind you with my beautiful ring. I am happily engaged to a man I love dearly and I am eager to begin 2011 as a bride to be! Also, I’m a graduate now, I am officially relieved as a student in KDU after 4 long years.

But I’m not in a hurry to be a worker yet, I’m taking a good 3 months off for the new year before getting my fun sucked out from my life. I’ll be heading to Taiwan for a month by the end of January to celebrate Chinese New Year! Other than that, I am scouting for wedding essentials there; particularly dresses, jewelry, accessories and all sorts of nitwit thingies that you can use for a wedding.

I haven’t exactly been the best blogger for the past couple of years and I have my reasons. I felt that the excessive outpour in public is a little general for me, especially with nosy nincompoop’s scavenging whatever they could reap from me and use it against me. Yes some people are that lifeless, more so fake.

I am indifferent towards the idea that they are existent in my life, I’m just happy I don’t meet the person(s) often, at all!

I had a good year in 2010. It was a year of new sense of life. I felt like I have so much to live for after going through my dad’s passing. I miss him dearly and I think about him every single day, and every night before I sleep. I have this uncanny feeling that he is always with me wherever I go, that whenever I have problems and obstacles to face, it miraculously falls into place and resolves itself. I put the credit to my dad.

One thing about 2010 was, the amount of things I went through that opened my eyes as a daughter, a student, a girlfriend and a person. I saw that I am actually a very motherly person, when I am with my niece, Stella. I have this sudden of overwhelmed maternal protectiveness with her. I am normally very motherly with my pets, but never with a baby before. In the same year, my boyfriend moved to KL to start a new job and yes, it is a long distance relationship all over again. Funny thing was, I was the one who urged him to go to KL and he was the one fidgeting around with the thought. I didn’t regret one bit of it though, I would do the same thing if I were him. I was never much of a whiny need girlfriend so I guess he has a super awesome girlfriend (and now fiance).

At this moment, while still basking in the celebration of the new year, I am left to ponder about my career options. I’m not exactly sure of what I am to do yet, I have so many things to venture into but I can only do so many as a person. And 2011 began as a year of scheduling the entire year for me. I have pretty much the big events of the year all planned out even before it was 2011.

I am now in the full throttle mode of wedding planning as I want to get things done before I start working, such as the invitation cards (which I am making it myself!), the booking of the venues, yes venues because I will have 2 wedding dinners in Penang and Ipoh respectively and as for the wedding photography, we have booked a package with a bridal company in Taiwan so most likely, we will be flying to Taiwan during spring for our wedding photoshoot which will be so awesome! Other than that, it’s just adhering to the super complicated Chinese traditions that the groom’s family is enforcing. Chinese weddings are so darn complicated, bleh.

So when everything is set, those who are listed will be receiving my custom made invitations from me, wait for it.

So yea, that’s a summary of the good stuffs of 2010 and the upcoming 2011.

Happy new year people, I am a bride to be! Oh yea~

♥ Wendy